New Years Resolution Archives - A Father of Twin Boys

Happy New Years! Welcome to 2017, the year of something.

The great thing about New Years is that it is a restart, a new beginning. Out with the old, in with the new. But, unlike many, I have really decided to have resolutions that were more manageable, which in my humble opinion, is why so many quite their resolutions within the first 3 months of a new year.

So here goes:

Be a better father and husband – Spend more Quality time and Quantity of time with my kids and my wife. Once a month, we take a family day and go somewhere for the day. And with that, once a month, my wife and I have a date night/afternoon lunch. I’ve already talked with our babysitter and she is giving me a list of dates for the first 6 months of the year.
Continue to reduce our family debt – This is and will be a primary focus for the year(s) to come. At our current position, we have done a solid job with both eliminating debt and also not adding any additional debt. There have been factors that have slowed down our progress, but I’m hoping that we will be able to continue our progress and with a sizable tax return, that we’ll be able to dwindle down our debt. The goal is to get all of our debt, to include my wife’s van and student loan down in the next 24 months. The other part of that, is to be able to start saving for a down payment, as I’ll need a new Jeep in the next year, as I’m already riding on borrowed time with it.
Weight Loss – Only those that don’t need to lose weight, ever put this one down. So yes, I need to lose weight. And with that, I just had my physical for 2016 for work and was down 5 lbs from the previous year. That being said, it was a start, but I’m ready to do more. I’m really ready to drop this weight and that will be a little of a challenge as with a bad knee, it knocks out running and some of the things that I would normally like to do to knock the weight out. But, doesn’t mean that I can not work on eating better and cut out alcohol. The cutting out alcohol will also help reduce debt too, so a win win.

So as we wind down our New Years holiday and take some time to reflect, I wish you and your families the best new years possible. So far for us, we have only had 1 Urgent Care trip visit in 2017 and yes, we are only at the 2nd day of the year. So from my family to yours, Happy New Years!

I know, it is past January 1 and everyone in the world sets their New Years Resolutions on January 1. And by January 3rd, most are already broken.

I went back and looked at the past two posts that I made on Resolutions which can be found here and here. So the common theme is just like many, finances and weight loss. So, here are my goals:

1) Financial – Save $2,000 & pay off 2 more credit cards.

2) Weight Loss – As of today, I am down 22 pounds from last year today. That being said, I want to be down another 20 pounds by our summer vacation.

3) Find a church – This has been a huge struggle for me this past year. We haven’t been to church as we should/I’ve wanted to and it has been something that has been really missing in my life.

4) Be a better father – Again, something that we all say, but it is something that I really want to focus on. I want to teach my sons more. I want to be more loving and attentive, though I feel that I am, I feel that I can always improve.

So there, those are my Resolutions for 2015. I have talked with my wife and we are going to hold each other accountable with our resolutions and not just fall aside.